#include <bits/stdc++.h>
#include <atcoder/all>
using namespace std;
using namespace atcoder;
istream &operator>>(istream &is, modint &a) { long long v; is >> v; a = v; return is; }
ostream &operator<<(ostream &os, const modint &a) { return os << a.val(); }
istream &operator>>(istream &is, modint998244353 &a) { long long v; is >> v; a = v; return is; }
ostream &operator<<(ostream &os, const modint998244353 &a) { return os << a.val(); }
istream &operator>>(istream &is, modint1000000007 &a) { long long v; is >> v; a = v; return is; }
ostream &operator<<(ostream &os, const modint1000000007 &a) { return os << a.val(); } 

typedef long long ll;
typedef vector<vector<int>> Graph;
typedef pair<int, int> pii;
typedef pair<ll, ll> pll;
#define FOR(i,l,r) for (int i = l;i < (int)(r); i++)
#define rep(i,n) for (int i = 0;i < (int)(n); i++)
#define all(x) x.begin(), x.end()
#define rall(x) x.rbegin(), x.rend()
#define my_sort(x) sort(x.begin(), x.end())
#define my_max(x) *max_element(all(x))
#define my_min(x) *min_element(all(x))
template<class T> inline bool chmax(T& a, T b) { if (a < b) { a = b; return 1; } return 0; }
template<class T> inline bool chmin(T& a, T b) { if (a > b) { a = b; return 1; } return 0; }
const int INF = (1<<30) - 1;
const ll LINF = (1LL<<62) - 1;
const int MOD = 998244353;
const int MOD2 = 1e9+7;
const double PI = acos(-1);
vector<int> di = {1,0,-1,0};
vector<int> dj = {0,1,0,-1};

#ifdef LOCAL
#  include <debug_print.hpp>
#  define debug(...) debug_print::multi_print(#__VA_ARGS__, __VA_ARGS__)
#else
#  define debug(...) (static_cast<void>(0))
#endif

int main(){
    cin.tie(0);
    ios_base::sync_with_stdio(false);
    int N, M; cin >> N >> M;
    vector<ll> A(N), B(M);
    rep(i,N) cin >> A[i];
    rep(i,M) cin >> B[i];
    vector<int> K(M);
    vector<vector<int>> C(M);
    rep(i,M){
        cin >> K[i];
        C[i].resize(K[i]);
        rep(j,K[i]) cin >> C[i][j];
    }

    mf_graph<ll> g(N + M + 2);
    int st = 0, en = N + M + 1;
    rep(i,N) {
        g.add_edge(st, i + 1, 0);
        g.add_edge(i + 1, en, A[i]);
    }
    rep(i,M) {
        g.add_edge(st, i + 1 + N, B[i]);
        g.add_edge(i + 1 + N, en, 0);
    }
    rep(i,M){
        rep(j,K[i]){
            g.add_edge(i + N + 1, C[i][j], INF);
        }
    }

    auto f = g.flow(st, en);
    cout << accumulate(all(B), 0ll) - f << endl;
}